Blogger Anam Hakeem shares her top tips on convincing your parents to let you travel.

Desi parents don't budge easy, and Anam knows, that's why she's got six tips for you.

Asking overprotective desi parents to let you travel internationally is one of the hardest things in life. Trust us, been there, done that, still doing it.

And if you're a woman, the struggle is real.

But travel blogger Anam Hakeem, who goes by the name Girl With Green Passport, has some advice on how you can convince your parents. These aren't just a couple of tips, there are a total of six, because Anam knows how difficult it is to get desi parents to budge.

Wish we wouldn't have to lobby for our right to travel as grown adults but it's unfortunately the way it is.

Here's how you can try your luck.

Tip #1: Pick the perfect timing to ask

This is a no-brainer. Don't choose a time when your parents aren't in a good mood, either because of you or other factors. Their mood will affect their decision and it's best to make sure they're happy with you before you approach them. Don't rush into asking them for permission. It's best to be on the safe side.

Tip #2: Pick a place you have relatives

Yes, we know what you're thinking, they're the reason you want to get away BUT think long-term; if this is the first time you're travelling alone, you'll have to make a little compromise. Pick a place where there are people you and your parents know and then towards the last few days you can go to a town or city nearby where you can get your alone-time. This way maybe next time your parents will be more comfortable sending you on your own.

Tip #3: Plan a trip around a conference or training

Use this as the last resort when parents absolutely cannot understand the logic behind why you'd want to travel. Convince your parents that the training/conference will benefit you as a professional or it is related to your field of study and will add to your skills. It may become a solid ground for your parents to understand. And then you can plan a trip around it; give yourself a couple of days for leisure or exploration.

Tip #4: Pick a...

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